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Good Friendship, Bad Friendship Characteristics
There are many types of friends, Some of them good and Another is bad, and it's not easy to Choose our friends, we must know the good and bad qualities of a friend
here are some warning signs
from The Girl’s and Boy’s Town that can help identify when a friendship is not positive
The bad friend:
always wants things done their own way.
is jealous of any other relationships or friendships your child has.
is critical of your child and of others.
doesn’t give your child any space and always wants to be with them.
acts like they are better than your child in some way.
may lie to your child and others.
encourages your child to make bad choices.
has different values than your child.
uses your child.
On the flip side good friends act differently.
The good friend:
respects your child’s opinion.
has their own interests outside of your child.
acts like they and your child are equals.
is honest with your child and others.
doesn’t criticize.
supports your child in their activities.
has similar interests.
has similar values.
If you believe that your child is involved in a bad friendship help them evaluate the friendship by asking them questions like:
Does your friend make you feel good?
Do you ever wonder if your friend says bad things about you behind your back?
Does your friend ever ask you to do things that you are uncomfortable with?
Does your friend make you feel like you are not as good as they are?
Does your friend not like it when you hang out with other people?
Does your friend ask you to contribute more to the relationship?
Does your friendship make you feel safe and comfortable?
By asking your child these questions you can get them thinking about the friendship and if it is really a positive thing in their life. You can’t force your child to drop a friend just because you feel it is negative. In fact telling your child that you don’t like a certain friend can backfire. But you can ask your child questions to get them thinking about the friendship and the qualities that a good friend has.
The Islamic Scientifi
c Institute
Good Friendship, Bad Friendship Characteristics
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